Words that hurt

There are some positive words that I'm pretty sure were made to make people motivated. And they don't work for me:

Be patient

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THIS WORDS, HEY YA PEOPLEEEEEEEE??

every time I am trying to achieve something, and it gets hard and I really really really want to quit (but I haven't quit yet), people will tell me, "Sabar, Ver." It makes me want to stop trying and just laying on my bed staring at the ceiling wishing for a miracle.

You can't have everything

DON'T EVER TELL ME THESE WORDS!

Every time I hear this, I feel that you have a doubt on me and I feel offended and I feel like a failure. Let me tell you that I know how the system works: if it is meant for me, it will be mine even though I am just playing with puddle after the rain; and if it is not meant for me, it will never be mine how hard I try. And you don't have a right to tell me that I don't deserve things that I am working on.

I know when to stop.

And one day, if I say "be patient" to you, most of the time, it means that I don't care, unless I know how hard you worked for it. Because if I care, I really want you to get what you want, and by this I mean I am supporting you.

And if one day I say "you can't have everything", it will always mean that I am mocking you. You can marry Keanu Reeves if you want, right?